Human.

Sometimes it's hard to forget others have feelings.

Sometimes its hard your mother is a daughter, your father is a son, your brother is just a boy, your sister is just a girl, your friend has their own life, an enemy has their own struggles. Sometimes you get lost in your world and forget that others have their own as well, sometimes you get lost in your way of seeing things that you don't see others perspectives on it.

It's easy to forget. It's easy to get lost in what you believe and what you think. It's easy to simply see the world through your own eyes and forget that the world looks so different for everyone else. It's easy to put your beliefs first. It's easy to put your feelings before others. It's easy to forget that everyone is different.

But everyone is different. Life looks different for everyone and that could be such a dramatic difference or such a familiar similarity. You could think someone has it great, their life is perfect when in reality their world doesn't shine as brightly as you think it does.

We all have our own struggles, we all have our own hopes and dreams, we all have our own thoughts and opinions, we all have our own brightest days and we all have our own darkest nights. We all have our own lives and our lives all are interconnected in one way or another, we might be someone's greatest impact, smallest light in a day, biggest darkness or even a dim moment. 

It's easy to get lost in yourself. I find myself doing that all the time. I forget that my mother was once a little girl like me and see experienced her own happiness and her own darkness. I forget my father was once a young immature kid who didn't know right from wrong. I forget that my brothers are learning everything for the first time as well and they don't know better. I forget that my sisters had their own teenage experience. I forget that my friends are going through similar things as I am. I forget that those foolish boys have feelings too.

I forget that others are also desperately looking for happiness. I forget that others may crave love and validation and care. I forget that others may have stressful moments that they have to deal with on their own. I forget that others may have silent struggles that they hide from everyone. I forget that everyone is only trying to live their life.

This is everyone's first time living and they'll just want to enjoy it by any means possible. They might be lost, They might not know, They might be foolish or stupid sometimes, They might be wise and know all, They might be happy, They might be sad, They might need help, They might need space, They might mean, They might be nice.

But it's their life to live and they'll always have a reason for however they are whether you like it or not. Don't forget that they are human too.