Men & Women.

Men want to provide. Women want to care. It's as simple as that.

A man will not be ready until he feels ready; until he feels good about himself and where he is in life, until he feels like everything is set into place, until he's in the best mind space, until he's got a good job, until he actually feels like he can provide and won't fail then he'll be ready and he'll provide.

You can not rush a man, you can not push a man, you can not motivate a man, you can not change a mans mind or heart because then they won't be a good man for you, they won't be the right man for you not because your not enough or they don't love you but simply because they weren't ready and they need to come to that decision themselves.

The right man will be ready, the right man will find you and you'll be enough to stay with him while he gets ready to provide for you, the right man will choose you and never have straying eyes, the right man will come. You just have to be patient, wait for the right man to come, wait for him to be ready, and then he will provide.

A woman will think she's always ready. She'll fall for someone and then want to take care of them, she'll want to nurture him and better him in any way she can, she wants to be by his side and lift him up in any means possible, she'll want to make him happy and give all her love and care, she'll want to put everything into them.

But if she isn't ready or if she's found the wrong man then she will not nurture you or  better you, she will not be able to make you as happy as she wants, she'll try and try as hard as she can until you've broken her enough, then she'll spend all her time wondering what's wrong, she will not have the proper love and care to give because it'll all be spent on herself or she'll kill herself trying to give it all to them.

So to simply put; A man wants to provide, he wants to feel important, he wants to feel needed, he wants to be strong for you. A woman wants to care, she wants to support, she wants to know she's doing good for him, she wants to feel wanted.

 A good man and a good woman they will provide and care for each other.